I have something new, what I have heard in Germany. Appearance lies German: Der Schein trügt Slovenian: Videz vara Croatian: Izgled vara (ili: Izgled laže) In short: some people, like couples look very lucky, when they are outside between other people. Different is in their home, where they argue all the time. My case: I smile, I am friendly to other people, I am sunny person, outside! In fact, deep in me, I am very unhappy person. It has nothing to do with love or depression; it is because of circumstances they happened and still happen to me. Do you have it in your language and how do you say it? Thank you, B.