I'm confused by the expression "pana mea", which I've encountered several times in the novel Pervertirea (Cristina Nemerovschi). Here's an example where one character asks about a girl who has disappeared: "Bă, tu ai făcut ceva cu Amalia?! Ai răpit-o?! Unde pana mea e Amalia? Ai omorât-o, nenorocitule?"