Hi I'm reading 'Rules of Love(about friendship)'. <When your friend choose to distance themselves from you, don't resent tnem for dumping you. It's such a futile emotion, and it will screw you uo. I struggle to see how that could possibly be a constructive way to go about things. Especially when you've had a friend who brought you happiness at least for a while.> Could you tell me what does this this sentence mean? What is the author's intention in this? Let me try to understand.... Not having resenting emotion can be a constructive way to solve the problems. Am I right? If so, what does 'I struggle to see' imply?