That's not Urban Hejazi (which is what Qaqa is interested in). Traditionally, people in Jeddah and Mecca would never use راعي and would never use ها in this way.I guess if you want to ask about the male head of the house, you will say:
مين راعى ها البيت؟
What part of the Mecca area did you live in? The Saudi province of Mecca today includes a chunk of Najd, by the way.Is Hijazi dialect confined to Mecca and Jeddah alone? I lived in a place which was part of the Mecca area and they used to say that.