In a meeting or at a meeting

Discussie in 'English Only' gestart door Oros, 29 jun 2006.

  1. Oros Senior Member

    Where is he?

    1. He is at a meeting.

    2. He is in a meeting.

    I would vote for the first sentence if he is really attending a meeting at the time of asking.

    If he is having a coffe break/tea break at the time of asking, I would vote for the first sentence.

    What is your opinion?

    I would like to hear from you all.
  2. Kelly B

    Kelly B Senior Member

    USA English
    I would usually use #2, He is in a meeting, except perhaps if he is out of town or otherwise offsite. Then I might say he is at a meeting, in the same way I would say he is at (attending) a conference.
  3. swinginscot Senior Member

    English, UK/US
    Hi there,
    "He's in a meeting" is probably used a little more but I also hear people say "he's at a meeting." So either option wouldn't seem out of place. Just use whatever feels more comfortable.

  4. Sallyb36

    Sallyb36 Senior Member

    Liverpool UK
    British UK
    in a meeting is more common, unless you wanted to say he's at a meeting of the Womens Guild, or whatever it would be!!
  5. Agreed. When I was working in the confines of an office and a call came through from a person to whom my boss didn't wish to speak, the stock reply was, "I'm very sorry, Mr xxxxxxx is in a meeting. May I take your number and get him to call you back when he is free?"

  6. maxiogee Banned

    In a meeting implies being on the same premises as the speaker.
    At a meeting implies being on a different premises than the speaker.
  7. timpeac

    timpeac Senior Member

    English (England)
    Yes, well noticed :thumbsup: - I think this is true. "In a meeting" is by far the more common phrase. "At" adds the nuance that you have gone somewhere. In fact, the more I think about it the more I agree. You ask where your colleague John is and someone says "he's in a meeting with his boss" - fine. "he's at a meeting with his boss" - I would wonder oh "who are they with" eg "where have they gone together".
  8. Hello,
    Which preposition would you use?

    I'm in/at the meeting.

    Thank you in advance :)
  9. GenJen54

    GenJen54 Senior Member

    Downright Pleasant, USA
    USA - English
    In AE, we usually say "in a/the meeting." However, much depends on context.

    For example, if you are in the meeting space and are participating in the meeting, we use "in."

    In certain situations, you might use "at," but that indicates that perhaps the meeting is on break and you are outside of the actual meeting space.

    For example, let's say that I attend a conference for PR professionals and I call my husband.

    I might tell him: Hey honey, I'm at the conference.This means that I am at the venue where the conference is taking place. I am not, at this moment, actively participating in the conference.

    Lets further say that while attending the conference, I meet with several other PR practitioners. During this meeting, my husband calls me on my cell phone. I might answer it* and say: I can't talk right now. I'm in a meeting. In other words, I am actively participating in the proceedings.

    * I would never, unless I knew it was an emergency, answer my cell phone during a professional meeting. I almost always have it turned off.
  10. DavyBCN Senior Member

    UK - English
    In BE both are ok.
  11. panjandrum

    panjandrum Occasional Moderator

    Belfast, Ireland
    English-Ireland (top end)
    If I phone Bill and his secretary says he's in a meeting, I know Bill is on the premises. If she says he's at a meeting, I know he's at a meeting somewhere else.

    I don't take calls when I am at (or in:p ) a meeting. That would be extremely rude.
  12. emilita Senior Member

    Hello to everyone, my questions are pretty basic :) Here we go...

    I´ve always thought you say ´at the meeting´ but now I got confused because I´ve just seen ´in the meeting´ - are both versions correct/interchangeable or there is actually a difference in the usage?

    Another thing, a lot of Spaniards tend to say (when they speak English): ´I must recognise that...´ which is a direct translation from Spanish. I always say ´I must admit that...´ and the version with ´recognise´ does sound strange to my ears. My dear native speakers, am I going crazy or you can actually say that???

    Thank you in advance for any help and have a nice day!
  13. Thomas F. O'Gara Senior Member

    English USA
    There is a difference in meaning, although it's difficult to pinpoint it, and they overlap. "At the meeting" is probably more idiomatic in more situations. To say "in the meeting" there has to be a sense of inside vs. outside, at least implied.

    "Mary's at the meeting." Maybe the meeting is in Denver and you're in New York.

    "Mary's in the meeting." You're more likely standing outside the meeting room.

    Note this also:

    "Mary's at a meeting." The same as "at the meeting", although now we're not talking about a specific meeting.

    "Mary's in a meeting." It implies that Mary is not to be disturbed, and in general "in" in these cases carries a sense of something more guarded. Compare:

    "At the meeting the new sales figures were discussed." The sales figures were on the agenda for the meeting.

    "In the sales meeting the new sales figures were discussed." Impies that word about this should not be spread around much.
  14. emilita Senior Member

    Thank you sooo much! Wow, English will never stop surprising me although I have been learning it for a long time now. Can you please answer my second question I must recognise that ... ? Is it possible/does it sound fine to say ¨I must recognize¨ instead of ¨I must admit¨? I would be really, really grateful for any help as I keep hearing this sentence...
  15. learning_grenglish

    learning_grenglish Senior Member

    What points came up at/in the meeting.

    Please help me to choose the correct option.

    I would choose the `in' rather than the `at'.
  16. Larentia Member

    United States
    USA -- English
    If you were attending the meeting then you would be "in" the meeting.
    If you were saying where someone was you would use "they are at the meeting."
  17. JeffJo Senior Member

    USA, English
    Re: "What points came up at/in the meeting [?]"

    I believe the choice would be only personal preference, between 'at' and 'in'. I see no clear difference.
  18. Sallyb36

    Sallyb36 Senior Member

    Liverpool UK
    British UK

    My Spanish friend asked me whether I would say "in a meeting" or "at a meeting".

    I had to think about it, but said that I think the strictly correct way would be to say "at a meeting", but that I personally would say "in a meeting" if the meeting was in the same building as I am, but "at a meeting" if the person concerned had to go to meet someone elsewhere.

    Can anybody shed any light on this matter please? Is one way correct and the other not, is there any subtle difference?

    Thank you.
  19. Cagey post mod (English Only / Latin)

    English - US
    I have merged the above thread with the previous longer thread.
    Laatst bewerkt: 20 apr 2009
  20. Le Duy Hung New Member

    No. 2 is correct. This is because if someone is in a meeting, he attends a meeting. "in a meeting" is simply used to show the place where somebody or something is.
    However, "at a meeting" is different. It is used to emphasize an action or activity (sb does sth) during a meeting.
  21. sunyaer Senior Member

    It seems there might be a difference in whether or not you can make or take calls at a meeting, depending on personal usage, doesn't it?
    Laatst bewerkt: 3 mrt 2014
  22. EStjarn

    EStjarn Senior Member

    Is this a language question, sunyaer? If so, I don't think I understand it.
  23. sunyaer Senior Member

    Some people understand "at a meeting" as not necessarily in the middle of a meeting, as such they can make and take calls at a meeting in some contexts, other people, on the other hand, use "at a meeting" differently to mean the opposite. Is it a language question?
  24. EStjarn

    EStjarn Senior Member

    I think I get what you mean: panjandrum seems to understand at a meeting as in the middle of an off-premises meeting, GenJen does not.

    Personally, I don't see their replies as contradictory. I suggest the discrepancy is due to a lack of common context.

    (i) It is reasonable to assume that panjandrum would take calls during meeting breaks. If so, his reply simply did not take the breaks into account.

    (ii) GenJen's reply seems to refer specifically to what she as an off-premises meeting participant would say if she got a call. Since she doesn't take calls while in a meeting, she would say at a meeting. The reply doesn't mention what a secretary might say regarding her whereabouts, which I'd understand would be at a meeting, meaning attending an off-premises meeting.
  25. Ivan_I Senior Member

    Well, does it mean that the secretary is in the meeting too?
  26. panjandrum

    panjandrum Occasional Moderator

    Belfast, Ireland
    English-Ireland (top end)
    No. I wonder why you ask that.
    Almost certainly, Bill's secretary is not attending the meeting.
  27. sagar grammar

    sagar grammar Senior Member

    new delhi
    Hello teachers....
    I have read this somewhere....

    In- is used when we show inclusion or involvement.
    At- is used for gatherings of people.
    (Gatherings = meeting, conference etc.)

    1- I was at the meeting. ( i was at the place where the meeting held)
    2- I was in the meeting. ( i was at the place where the meeting held and actively took part in it, discussing something or doing something.)

    I was at the meeting. ( present + not active)
    ( an emphasize on presence)

    I was in the meeting. ( present + active)
    ( an emphasize on activity)
    Laatst bewerkt: 17 jun 2016
  28. Singhania

    Singhania New Member

    Bro your reply is awesome I was really confused. I read all the given post but none of the above post have clarify this confusion but you cleared my this confusion. Thank you a lot

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