Stammi bene

Discussion in 'Italian-English' started by mypigtail, Jul 16, 2005.

  1. mypigtail New Member

    shanghai China
    china and chinese
    Stammi bene

    Does it mean" I am all right" or "do be all right for me"?
    I am a beginner and thank you for your help:)
  2. Jana337

    Jana337 Senior Member


    welcome to the forums! :)

    It means "take care" and you use it in letters or when saying goodbye to friends.
    The infinitive is "stare". From a purely logical point of view, the imperative "stai bene" sounds better to foreigners' ears.

  3. islandspaniels

    islandspaniels Member

    USA English
    Seems to be an informal way of saying" take care". you could also use "in gamba" to say the same thing..more formally I am told to use "si riguardi"
    I've asked the same question on the forum grandmother
    used "aver cura", but I don't know if that is correct :)
    Stammi bene ;)
  4. mypigtail New Member

    shanghai China
    china and chinese
    Capito e grazie mille!
    By the way,my aunt use "baci" at the end of the massage she sends me,it means "kiss"yes? I just wonder in what situation or to what kind of people it can be used?
  5. islandspaniels

    islandspaniels Member

    USA English
    mypigtail :) riguardo a "baci"
    I have received several EMails from friends ( all female) ending with "un bacio") also "abbraccio"..I feel both are affectionate ways of saying good bye or even take care..In english we use "fondly" also to express the same thing.
    tanti auguri
  6. Silvia B

    Silvia B Senior Member

    Italy - Italian
    My pigtail, just a few notes:

    "aver cura" is a correct verb, you should say:
    "abbia cura di se stesso" (very formal)
    "abbi cura di te" (informal but not very used)

    I would say that both are better used in written language recently..
    Or you can hear it in some films.

    "si riguardi" is very formal
    "stammi bene" informal

    Many people say "stammi bene" when they leave a friend. I use it a lot.

    "in gamba" sounds a bit strange... I mean, I've never heard anybody using that word while leaving someone, but maybe somewhere in Italy it is used with this meaning. Seems like a dialectical way of greeting someone. I dare say that it could even come from north Italy, where I live..but, if so, I definetely think it is really old fashioned!!
    The only meaning it has nowadays is something like .. well, take this example.
    Sometimes when we refer to an older person who is still very smart, or sporty, in good health and who maybe still work we can say:
    "Ha ormai 90 anni ed è ancora così in gamba!"
    "He is almost 90 and he is still so ... "
    Do you have a word to define something like that??

    Hope it helps!
  7. islandspaniels

    islandspaniels Member

    USA English
    SilviaB..Caspita :cool:
    You have made it very clear...I still stick with "stammi bene"
    Re: "in gamba" I would say "ha ormai 90 anni ed è ancora così in gamba"="He is 90 years old and is still alive and kicking! My son might say "the old guy is troppo figo"
  8. Silvia B

    Silvia B Senior Member

    Italy - Italian
    Good, I am glad you understood..!
    Always use "stammi bene" with will never do wrong!

    "alive and kicking"... wonderful, I have learned something new! :)

    Hahaah!! That's nice! :D
  9. lsp

    lsp Senior Member

    US, English
    "in gamba" and "alive and kicking" only correspond in this one specific example, though. To make it more general for other occasions, you might have said "still with it."
  10. islandspaniels

    islandspaniels Member

    USA English
    ISP, hope I am not getting off the subject but you are absolutely right, my uncle just reminded me.."despite all that has happened to him lui ancora è in gamba" =he can still hold it together :rolleyes:
  11. lsp

    lsp Senior Member

    US, English
    But what about younger people? They can also be described as "in gamba," and then "holding it together" sounds as odd to me as "alive and kicking."
    :) Lsp
  12. horseman Senior Member

    Italy, Campania
    Could someone please tell me the English translation of " stammi bene'? Does it mean "stay well"..? Can one simply say Stai bene ?
  13. V52

    V52 Senior Member

    Italy Italian
    HI Horseman
    "Stammi bene" means "Take care of yourself!"
  14. luke_77

    luke_77 Senior Member

    Milan (suburbs)
    Italy - Italian
    Yes Horsemen! It's a slang form to say "stay well". With that we mean : "take care of yourself" or simply "stay well". You got it.

    "Stammi bene" is a dialectal form to make the sentence stronger, more personal and colloquial. It could be translated into: Stai bene (a me) that sounds really bad! It is used between friends and persons that you know well. You won't never say it to an occasional person.
  15. danalto

    danalto Senior Member

    Roma, Italia, Europa
    Italy - Italian
    "Take care" is the right translation, according to me. :)
  16. horseman Senior Member

    Italy, Campania
    Ok..thank you. Why does it seem to be an imperativo..i.e..stammi..dimmi..etc. referring back to me. I'm just trying to understand the concept..or is it purely dialectical and can't be explained .
  17. Silvia

    Silvia Senior Member

    I'm not sure I understand your question...

    You can't translate word by word...
  18. V52

    V52 Senior Member

    Italy Italian
    Ciao Luke
    I don't think "stammi bene" can be related to a specific dialect, it is good colloquial Italian , did you mean "colloquial" instead of "dialectal"? For our not mother tongue friends it's important to know the difference. :)
    BTW Danalto gave the most "colloquial" and right version "Take care"
  19. Silvia

    Silvia Senior Member

    Vittorio, come definiresti statti accorto? Colloquiale? Per me non è un italiano molto corretto... è italianizzato più che altro.
  20. V52

    V52 Senior Member

    Italy Italian
    Si, hai ragione per "statti accorto" , riferibile a una provenienza meridionale, ma "stammi bene" da quale dialetto proverrebbe?
    Anyway let's explain the meaning of "statti accorto" = " Be careful"
  21. luke_77

    luke_77 Senior Member

    Milan (suburbs)
    Italy - Italian
    Ciao Vittorio,

    Yes you're right (guys don't misunderstand!):) , I was meaning colloquial. Take care fits too!

  22. lsp

    lsp Senior Member

    US, English
    You can see much more on the topic, including another thread with this same title, by using the search function on the phrase in quotes ("stammi bene").
  23. Silvia

    Silvia Senior Member

    Sempre dal sud, perché non mi risulta una forma riflessiva in questo caso al nord...
  24. V52

    V52 Senior Member

    Italy Italian
    Sarebbe da verificare... così, per curiosità...
  25. mirco New Member

    Italiano - Italia
    Yes, it is correct.:thumbsup:
    You use it in imperative way as "take care of you": "Abbi cura di te". I have heard it few times, just by my mother ad girls using it in a very affective way.

    :thumbsdown: No e si.
    "Chi non ha testa, ha gambe!" means "If you haven't head, have legs". Stupid people have do to the same thing many times. In a travel, you surely forget something, and you have to go back and forth more times...
    Si se, "the slow...", means slow in understanding.
  26. filosnet New Member

    Italiano Italia
    "Stammi bene" is an informal and not often used expression to say something like "I wish you all the best" (not really "take care"). Also "in gamba" is very informal and rarely used. On the contrary, "Si riguardi" is a very formal way to say "take care", but it can be used ONLY when you know that the other person is not so good in terms of health. If you don't know about that, I don't really recommend to use "Si riguardi"... :)
  27. marin1976 New Member

    Denmark, Faroese
    I have understood the meaning of the phrase, but I am uncertain of how to reply to ir properly?
  28. Stiannu

    Stiannu Senior Member

    Torino (Turin), Italy
    Italy, Italian
    Anche tu! (You too!), or Grazie, anche tu! (Thanks, you too!) could fit.
  29. Pete New Member

    My Harper Collins dict. says Stai attento means take care (warning) and Stammi bene (good wishes). How is the ...mmi explained? It seems to reflect to the speaker ("Be well for me). Thank you.
  30. dinah Senior Member

    United Kingdom
    Italy - Italian
    Yes, "stammi" does reflect to the speaker. It means "I hope you will be well"
  31. saltapicchio

    saltapicchio Senior Member

    Vicino Udine
    Italia (Roma) - Italiano
    Exactly ;)

    Like "fammi" = "make me"
  32. Indrid Cold

    Indrid Cold Senior Member

    English (UK)/French (FR) - Bilingual
    But "stammi bene a sentire" means more or less "now listen to me, and listen good!" - with a touch of agressivity.

  33. pazdominguez Senior Member

    so how would you say in the polite for "take care", like to a teacher, or an acquaintance?

    do you use "stammi bene" to say take care to a friend, for example, in the informal way?

    thanks for clearing it up for me! ;)
  34. Tripolino New Member

    ciao a tutti,
    it means also "Get well soon"
  35. Curandera Senior Member

    @Tripolino :

    Get well soon = riprenditi, guarisci

    Stai bene/riguardati = Keep fit, keep well, take care of yourself

    Ci vediamo e stammi bene = See you soon and take care.
  36. marialdina27 Senior Member

    When you say, "stammi bene a sentire" would you congigate sentire or there is no need because it is already conj with stammi?
  37. Alxmrphi Senior Member

    Reykjavík, Ísland
    UK English
    Exactly, the command is carried in the imperative (in stammi) and the thing after is connected so the infinitive is used.
    Like in English:

    Take care to clean all of the car...

    We have the 'take care' as the command so 'to clean' can just be used in the infinitive, but in English we can have conjugations like "Make sure you do it later" or "Make sure to do it later" so it's a little more flexible, in Italian it's a common theme to only conjugate once if you don't need to do it again, in English we can say "I hope I do it" where the second verb (to do) is conjugated again whereas in Italian it wouldn't be.. "spero di farlo" (farlo = infinitive + lo).
    Last edited: Dec 24, 2009
  38. orchidea2010 New Member

    grazie a tutti, adesso capisco bene la significa stammi bene.
  39. Astropolyp Senior Member

    London, not far from
    Italian - Tuscany
    Mi raccomando and in gamba are not formal at all. On the contrary, they both are usually uttered in informal conversation. They are not slang nor old-fashioned. I hear and use them fairly often but only with my friends.
    Last edited: Jul 13, 2010
  40. ideanese

    ideanese Senior Member

    Lo so che si dice "Stammi bene" = Stay well (for me). Ma se due persone vogliono dire lo stesso a due altre persone ė "State ci bene" = Stay well (for us)?
  41. Einstein

    Einstein Senior Member

    Milano, Italia
    UK, English
    You should join the pronoun to the imperative: "Stateci bene!" I think this is correct, but it's not heard so often.
  42. ideanese

    ideanese Senior Member


    da una persona a una persona = stammi bene
    da una persona a due persone = statemi bene

    da due persone a una persona = stacci bene
    da due persone a due persone = stateci bene

    É correttamente capito?
  43. King Crimson

    King Crimson Modus in fabula

    Milano, Italia
    We can sum up saying that the only version that is both correct and idiomatic (i.e. in common use) is the thread title. All other variations (except maybe for "statemi bene") will get you blank stares from most native speakers;)
    My 2c.
    Last edited: Sep 3, 2015

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